I feel as I get older showing skin has to be a bit more...strategic. A sliver of skin under a crop top or a bare shoulder with a midi skirt is enough for me. I love the idea of corsets, but worn alone can scream 'trying to hard'. Paired over a button down and some loose trousers is the perfect solution. It down plays the hyper-sexy vibe, but still manages to feel feminine. To pull it off keep the pallet neutral and simple and steer clear of lace or embellishments which can feel to much like lingerie.